写得真好，还有配的照片。it's been a long time to see such a blog which touched me so much.  Feels like to give you a big hug to show my support.
想念是好事，流泪也没什么。 Those are couple of colors of our colorful life, maybe little grey and darkish.  We have to learn to accept them and even appreciate them, then move on with our own strength.  We want to live strong to pay the tributes to the past.  (please forgive my mixed language writing because I have hard time to write Chinese in computer)