waiting...

i'm sure all of us have our own hatest things which we don't want to happen to us. if the golden rule says that : DON'T DO UNTO OTHERS, IF YOU DON' T WANT OTHERS TO DO IT UNTO YOU, then why does some people just don't  care of others' precious time. i hate waiting... that's why i always make sure that i have lots of time to prepare and fix things up.but often times i  end up waiting....it's okay with me if their reason is justifiable...i'll understand. i don't really get mad easily. but if the reason is so lame..like "i'm sorry, i fell asleep" Gosh! i'll hate you for that.  i spent hours waiting...i woke up early, tired, and exhausted and then they came very late smiling and acted like nothing hapened. meeting time at 8am, they show up at around 11...grrrr...!!! how come they don't get troubled by their conscience. i am actually adjusting my time a little late but then again they'll show up late. how can someone, a latecomer become successful in life? they do not have the sense of responsibility in their time and often times, they get to eat with the empty plate. "the early bird catches the worm".

i know patience is a virtue. but it is strongly dependent on case to case basis. you spend time waiting for the right time for the iron to strike hot, you wait for the right guy/girl in your life, you wait at the grocery counter to pay for your things, you wait for the airplane to land, you wait to finish school and get a degree,you wait for the amniotic fluid to rupture before deliveringa baby. but making someone wait for nothing, and without any acceptable reason is way beyond stupid. it's torture!  ggrrr....