\\\"I am Not an angel & Do not Pretend to be. That is Not one of my roles. But I am Not the devil either.\\\"
-Maria Callas
\\\"Emancipation of women has made them lose their mystery.\\\"
-Grace Kelly
\\\"There are many things in your heart you can never tell to another person.
They are you, your private joys and sorrows, and you can never tell them.
You cheapen yourself, the inside of yourself, when you tell them.\\\"
-Greta Garbo......
'If Satan ever laughs, it must be at hypocrites; they are the greatest dupes he has.”
-Charles Caleb Colton
I have been acquainted w/ all sorts of people, I’ve learned how to see the good in people, & knew the bad in those who pretends to be good. Observed those who speak of what is right, yet fail to act upon it.
I’ve met people who are misunderstood, those who are pure & sincere. I’ve also met hypocrites, traitors & those fainted hearted ones..
Lately, I’ve observed again some people who only try to be nice to you when he/she is in need of something, you seem to be the center of their world, but when he/she gets nothing out of it, everything is being thrown out on you.
They’ll put you in an emotional turmoil, destroy the peace that’s left in you & even affected your whole surrounding including the people around you, for what? For their stupid, selfish intentions.
Inconsiderate intentions that afterwards may ruin your reputation to others; just because you’re trying to be kind even if it means to be rude in an unintended way just not to further much hurt to anyone anymore, particularly avoiding gaining gaps within the relationship or the family.
But whatever their intention is, good or bad, I just wished they’ve thought of reconsidering, & understanding the situation they’re getting into. What are the consequences that it may bring them, & to the other party.
Yet after all is done, where are all the alleged flattering compliments he/she has been receiving from people? When even a sight of decency & responsibility just to say a single “hello” that everything will be alright despite the trouble made, is nowhere to be seen; instead, they’re the ones now who are hurting, the ones who need to be apologize to. but how about us?!
What’s worst is that now you’re the hypocrite, & they’re the saints. Now you’re thevillain, & they’re the heroes. Now you’re the one who’s unjust, & they’re the ones who are oppressed. That only proves how ignorant & immature they are, how ungrateful they are that they even have to disregard my parents' civil approach to them, how insincere they are that they will just cut your ties w/ them just because they didn't get what they want.
The sad thing about all these is that the ones who are doing this to you are people who are supposed to be your relatives. Hypocrites who cover up their own faces by placing the mistakes they’ve created to the ones that they have wronged.
Well, what more can I say, that’s how the misery of life is. I'm so fed up w/ all these unjust situations that I have experienced.
So, don’t be astonish why I only have kept a few friends w/ me, why I’d rather wish to keep myself isolated than being exposed to negative impressions, rumors & lies, because with all honesty, there are more evil in this world right now than good, & hypocrisy is equivalent to evil which I don’t want to be part of.
I know how to be honest & frank whenever I need to, but if that seems wrong to you, then you’re nothing but hypocrites.
(NOTE:sorry about this, I’m relating this to a family issue that had happen the past few days. I just need to rant about it before I go out of my mind. I’m so tired of meeting people like this.)
"Man is neither angel nor brute, and the misfortune is that he who would act the angel acts the brute.”
-Pascal
“Almost all of us long for peace and freedom; but very few of us
have much enthusiasm for the thoughts, feelings, and actions that make for
peace and freedom.’
-Aldous Huxley
“When men think and believe in one set of symbols and act in
ways which are contrary to their professed and conscious ideas, confusion and
insincerity are bound to result.”
-John Dewey
“Those whose conduct
gives room for talk are always the first to attack their neighbors.”
Your entry is so true. I've come to realise there's a number of people in my life who are like that. They say one thing and do another.
No need to be concerned with others who are stubborn. You cannot change them. Just be the way that you are. Long as you are truthful with yourself and know exactly what you are doing that is all that matters.
People can be so disappointing. The only thing we can do is set boundaries to keep ourselves from getting hurt and APPRECIATE the people who do treat us with kindness.
Hello... yeah its better to be surrounded by the few you trust then by a mass of people looking to stab you in the back the first chance they get...hope all will be well with you... take it easy
We have to learn how not to allow those impact our mental health. It is not easy, but I'd rather have less friends and be loney than joining the dark side.
This is your blog and you should voice how you feel here. This is obviously on your mind and bothering you. I hope venting here makes you feel bit better about things. Unfortunately there are a lot of people who act like that out there.
Good quotes, and it's so very true about hypocrites and it especially hurts when it comes from family and close friends. I don't blame you for wanting to be isolated.
No need to apologise, sometimes the best place to rant is to people who are outsiders, blogs are a good way of voicing your frustrations when no one else will listen.
hey, i think these emotions are really affecting you that much, huh? i guess all we can do in everyday life is to hang on with our head and dignity intact despite those who plan on bringing us down. have a good day!
Cheri
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