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    Everyday i pray this little prayer
    sometimes with my eyes closed sometimes not.....

    let me be real
    let me be honest
    let me be humble

    these are the things i need for now.......

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  • Cheat Proof

    2009-01-11 1:15AM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    IT seems to be the norm that one would cheat.

    soemtimes cheat within your mind(affection within to someone other than your lovely half)

    sometimes secretly cheated physically(sometimes protective sometimes non) where after

    tons of excuses to avoid your half finding out.

    People today seems to lose the ability to be loyal to only ONE.

    Is it Possible at all????? Do we actually has that abiltity, function within that can enable us to??

    YES.

    Just look at your 'TOWEL','UNDERWEAR','PILLOW','HAIRBRUSH','SHAVER'....etc

    'What R U Fxxxxxxx talking about??' one may ask.

    just look around to the more common 'things' in our daily living,

    then U will discover we actually do possess that 'what seemed impossible power that restrict us to just one', the power of loyalty.

    Somethings in our life we stick to as long as could hang on to....

    We all have that favoruite perosnal shower towel ,yes...we could buy many new ones,but we always ended up using that same faded one...even when threads started to peel off,we hung on to it............why?

    We, man always one underwear that is so comfortable no matter how it's torn,how the elastic band is almost non elastic...holes appeared here and there....the minute we put that on, it felt so familiar....that same PJ's pant, that college sweat shirt......the one we picked up always without thinking at the comfort of our own home before  sitting in front of the computer browsing, or watching TV.........out of all that huge n new fashionable wadrobe...why?

    that one pair of shoes......it's old still we didnt throw them away....those heels obviously had detoriated....why?

    that one Pillow....that soft but a bit smelly stuffed animal that we carried around weherever we moved.........that comforter....that same bedsheet that cover that same comforter...

    out of 100 jean....we actually only wear that 1 or 3....

    perfume, scent....as much as encountered and tried but we'd alwasy gone back to the smae scent.......

    that Hairbrush....that same shaver.........

    Looks like the list can just go on n on....

    looks like it's not a matter of affodability

    Looks like we all equally possess LOYAL POWER at all levels of our lives....

    What is that that keep us going back to that same item where we could go out to find some many new replacements....

    the fact is 'WE could' BUT 'WE Didnt'

    why's that?

    hmm....it must have been that familarity...Comfortability.....Surabiltiy(Sureness).

    Once we know who's the most comfortable to be with....

    and treasure that like our favourite underwear or pillow....

    and use every mean to preserve that.

    And smart enough to know that what seems excitment filled new cheat new thrills......

    Only if we would treasure our ' most comfortable one' like we did to one of 'the other items',

    and only if we know 'that most comfortable one' would oneday be torn due to

    'Wear and Tear' resulted from our constant explorations.

    When the most comfortable is finally gone....

    we left with day by day tryouts with nothing real comfortable in our life.

    That;s like going to a different hotel everyday....

    sleeping on a new pillow everyday....

    .............................

    I better not tear my lovely underwear.

    j

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  • cjvil866
    留言於2009-01-12 3:37PM [举报]
    wow!!! I totally agree, this is the first time i ever read a guys perspective on cheating other than it was just cuz they could. refreshing, nice, gets your noodle going... (: ))
  • enigma306
    留言於2009-01-11 7:03AM [举报]
    I totally got lost in their somewhere.  I think my attention span is low today.  I will ask you this much re: cheating.  When does a fantasy you may have about someone you may chat too at the diner, the place you get your morning coffee, or online, become cheating?  What's the difference?

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