maybe u should stay single

this is what I told my male friend in msn.

1.5 yrs ago, he went to NYC met a woman,

madly in love , a good thing........only 1 twist,

that woman is married with a daughter....

sometimes i m amazed by human mind, how it can rationlise things.....logics....

of coz....that woman's man is an abusive man.

Anywayz...gone thru threats and escape and flying back and forth NYC to toronto,

they finally got married 1 yr....lviing a dream life they thought would freeeze at the perfect point.

Life goes on...and on and on............

A hair stylist stayed home msn wiht me.....on a busy sat/////////

his present wife flyied back to NYC to see her own flesh....

my friend here...already thinking of a divorce....Y?

cos she cant forget her daughter....always missing...

she once thought, just like many divorced couples....thought once the decision made,

Life will play our normal forvevryone....this case didnt....

she ended missing her own kid more n more...

Man jealousy arises in situations like this...

thinking giiving her a home...a place...a non violent man...some $/.......

then she would be happy....completely happy.....without missing a bit of the past...

when he sees her not happy.....my friend is not happy...

how come she's till suffer.....

When one decided going into something....espcially relaionship....

U bettter be prepared to take the whole situaion...and stop imagining....different scenarios,

forcing others becoming happy////////////

'Maybe U shoudl stay single'

this is what I told my friend....

Myabe many moms think they could relive their own life somewhere ,

without lingering on thier past kids from last relationships....

but kids are kids are forever....

stop folling oneself and live a relaistic life..

Find someone who knows and accepts who you are then live a life.

j

The whole day I was hoping soemone would call me for a dine out or snack out....

none...when others were lonely...i'd always call them....

have anyone had this expeirence....when u r lonely....no one would remember you.

this is my day....but its ok....rather than lonely than force into a relaitonship like my friend.

I still have my French vanilla ice cream in my hand.