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    Everyday i pray this little prayer
    sometimes with my eyes closed sometimes not.....

    let me be real
    let me be honest
    let me be humble

    these are the things i need for now.......

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  • why do U complain?type1 type2

    2009-03-22 9:44PM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    why do I complain?

    is it bcos not fair,

    not good enough,

    why the ending not as expected?as planned?

    why do i have to share an aprtment?

    why the break hasnt come yet?

    the water is not hot enough?

    why is he selfish?

    WHY , the process of asking why why why all the time seems to be the cause of this

    'Dissatisfaction'.

    Always admired simple people,

    there r 2 types, one who is simple in nature, type2 learned simple

    Both are super kool.

    I've seen people who truly never asked why,

    they say , 'that's the way it' is so'   with a smile and go on with whatever is going on with

    their lives.......

    type2

    Used to be 'WHY's people........

    what casued them not to ask why anymore, i dont know,

    if they ever published a book expalinning why the sudden stop of asking 'WHY'

    i'll read them over n over n over again til i got it.

    this type of people,

    When everyone is asking why....his repsonse,

    Smile, then go on with whatver is happening around them.

    Type 1 blessed with simplicity

    Type 2 Hidden behind that smile, wisdom,content,humbleness,knwoing,lesson learned,choice,the knowledge of knowing it could be much much worse.

    which type are you?

    i m happy today, now......cos i m able to share and write.......

    hope u r too.

    j

     

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  • joeylove
    留言於2009-03-27 4:45PM [举报]
    WHY? haha ..... you must kidding.... you complain is not because not fair....is because you want it your way....
    question u ask:
    "why the ending not as expected?as planned?"
    it can be an accident ..... or  something happend so it have to change.... you dont have to ask WHY actually......

    "why do i have to share an aprtment?"
    sharing is caring..... if you can share why not? WHY?

    "why the break hasnt come yet?"
    sometimes break only will come when you have done your job....... and the time....  if you have done yours and u want your break....  i can tell you are gonna be alone..... if you wait for everyone to finish their job and have break togther you have laughter, friends....and you buil teamwork....

    why the water is not hot enough?
    is the water boil? did u wait? have you give time for the water to boil? cause abd effect~

    why is he selfish?"
    are not selfish?  i think everyone somehow will be selfish.......

    the first type sound like running away from the situation to me.... even if you smile and continue the work....the WHY question is still there....

    the second type is almost the same i guess....
  • luvli
    留言於2009-03-22 11:50PM [举报]
    I'm type 2... I had to learn the hard way that asking why never got anyone anywhere... I'm wiser,stronger and much happier now. I stopped asking why because I realized life is too short and the good die young... so why waste it on why's when you could be living, loving and sharing :)
  • mariejost
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    留言於2009-03-22 10:55PM [举报]
    Type 2 learned that asking/knowing "why" didn't change a thing.  When you reach that stage, "why" doesn't matter anymore.  What matters is what you do with "what is so".  Are you the master of the situation, or is it the master of you?

    It sounds like you just need to sit and talk with a friend, get things off your chest, wipe the slate clean, purge your heart and mind of what's eating you, and then start again.  That's what friends are for:  they can listen to you get it all out, and have no "advice" to offer you, because they know that isn't what you're looking for.  You just need to get some of this stuff out because you don't want to be carrying it around anymore.  You are finished with it and, like taking an emetic, you just need to purge.  You get the rotten stuff out are ready to move on.

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