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  • A "Fucking Chinese"

    2009-05-04 12:16AM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    KESWICK, ONT. — The 15-year-old black belt thought he was doing his tormentor a favour when he elected to fight back with his weaker left hand.

    He had heard his white classmate throw an angry racial slur in his direction after an argument during a gym class game of speedball, and now the student was shoving him backward, refusing to retract the smear.

    The white student swung first, hitting the 15-year-old with a punch to the mouth.

    The 15-year-old heard his father's voice running through his head: Fight only as a last resort, only in self-defence, only if given no choice, and only with the left hand.

    His swing was short and compact, a left-handed dart that hit the white student square on the nose.

    The nose broke under his fist, igniting a sequence of events - from arrest to suspension to possible expulsion - that has left the Asian student and his family wondering whether they are welcome in this small, rural and mostly white community north of Toronto, one that has been touched by anti-Asian attacks in the past.

    The 15-year-old, the only person charged in connection with the April 21 school fight, faces one count of assault causing bodily harm.

    But a remarkable thing happened this week.

    On Monday, 400 of his fellow students, wearing black in solidarity and carrying signs of support, walked out of Keswick High School to rally in protest in front of their school.

    Organizer Mathew Winch, a Grade 12 student, said the school has fewer than 10 Asian students, but everyone wanted to stand up against bullying and racism. The story even hit the front page of local newspapers.

    After the public outcry, the York Regional Police hate crimes unit reopened the case. Although the other student has not been charged, further charges are possible, a spokesman said yesterday.

    The case is particularly sensitive because of a series of attacks on Asian fishermen in the same area in 2007 - given the name "nipper tipping" by locals - which led to a high-profile investigation by the Ontario Human Rights Commission.

    Five such cases in 2007, ranging from violent car chases to fishermen on piers being pushed into the water, led to criminal charges. As a result of the publicity, many other Asian anglers came forward to say they had been abused or harassed while fishing in the Lake Simcoe area.

    The Asian boy's father is a martial-arts master who trained with the Korean national team. He brought his family to Canada in 2004.

    They settled in Keswick in 2006, and his son, who is still learning English, has studied hard to become a top student.

    He proudly showed off a report card with a 90-per-cent average. The boy has struggled a little socially, his parents said, which makes the outpouring of support from his classmates all the more remarkable.

    "It's the first time in my life I ever fought someone. I've been trained not to attack. It's total self-defence," the boy said. "I felt sorry because I broke his nose, but I can say he deserved it because he called me the racial comment. He started the fight, he punched me first."

    He said the boy called him a "fucking Chinese," a comment he instantly knew was far from a joke.

    "It's upsetting," he said. "I don't know how better to tell it."

    For the moment, both students are suspended from Keswick High School, but the Asian student's parents have been told he could be expelled and forced to find a new school.

    They are shocked and saddened by the ordeal.

    The day after the fight, an older cousin of their son's antagonist approached him in the school cafeteria and uttered a similar slur, compounding their sense of despair.

    "He said, 'You punched my cousin you Chinese fuck,' " the 15-year-old said. That student was overheard by a teacher and suspended.

    His father explains that the easiest course would be to move somewhere else and get a fresh start for his son. But he can't do it.

    "I don't want to run away. If another Asian kid comes to this school, what happens to him? Will he run into problems? Will they think they can just kick him out? I don't want to set that example," he said.

    "Personally, for my kid, I should move. But as a Canadian I cannot move."


    OK, well, I'm not sure how many of the people reading this have experienced racism in school but I sure have...and coming from the South, I have had MANY similar situations.  I've even gotten into a couple of fights trying to defend my "honor,"  but let's just say that my dad didn't train with the Korean National Team. 

    I'm glad this kid broke that dude's nose.  I do not condone violence, but every now and again, you have to let people know that they cannot push you around.  If you break someone's nose, then the next guy that wants to call you a "fucking chinese" will think twice. 

    I also think we as a people (Asian Americans and Asian Canadians) are too easily pushed around.   We are taught and bred and trained to let it slide.  "Don't make trouble."  And that's what we've done. 

    But it's also a fine line isn't it?  I've rolled my eyes plenty of times at people claiming racial discrimination.  For example, on TV, if someone does an Italian accent, you don't see Italian Americans making a big fuss about it.  But if someone does an "Asian" accent, people are crying....

    HOWEVER,

    I guess it is all about intent. 

    I don't know, man.  I have no answers.  I don't even know what I am rambling on about.  I guess, at the end of the day, we can all go on and try to live the best lives that we can. 

    All I know is that racism sucks, and I despise the looks on the faces of people that propagate it. 

    Peace and Love, ya'll.


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  • simonyin
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    留言於2009-05-08 12:30AM
    follow up here:

    http://www.theglobeandmail.com//servlet/story/LAC.20090502.KESWICK02ART2134/TPStory/National/

    this is the part that i just shake my head at:

    "His father said the school doesn't seem to understand the impact of the racial comment. Afterward, a vice-principal asked his son why a Korean was upset about being called Chinese."
  • apollo
    留言於2009-05-07 2:11AM [举报]
    Interesting article. Being Canadian myself, I am always shocked to hear stories like this. I grew up in Calgary, Alberta Canada and despite having a reputation of being a red neck, hilly billy infested, white bread, money worshipping, pseudo oil sheikdom sub-urban nightmare its actually a pretty nice place (I am saying this because I think tales like the one told by Lynn are in the vast minority).

    Toronto is one of the most multicultural cities in the world and I am amazed this would happen there. Cases of racism like this are rare in Canada I am sure of it but no less shocking and disturbing when they do occur. I am Canadian and grew up here and in all my many years I have never personally encountered a situation like this.

    I think you are right when you say - "I also think we as a people (Asian Americans and Asian Canadians) are too easily pushed around."

    The typical media and Hollywood portrayal of Asians (especially asian males) is nothing short of covert bullying and racism.

    Personally I think Asians need to start objecting to how we are treated by Hollywood and especially need to protest when someone overtly bully's us such as the case of the high school kid in the article. Good for him I say.
  • chungdha
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    留言於2009-05-05 3:45PM [举报]
    Yeah pretty much everywhere on the world exept in Asia you got to do with Asian racism from small childrens already saying: Ching Chan Chong. Which is pretty annoying, cause each time I hear that phrase I really want to punch the kid or person saying it. In France I had to do with Asian Racism by the Police there, in the whole train cart the only person they asked for a ID card was me, while they just walked past the rest of the people.
  • enigma306
    留言於2009-05-05 11:57AM [举报]
    I have to agree with you on being glad he broke the kids nose.  Damn imagine what he would have done if he hadn't used "his weaker hand?"  You know the only answer I know is education.  That kid is nothing but a product of his family & friends.  That's what is really scary.  Hopefully, with a public outcry, there won't be any revenge acts.

    How fantastic are the kids in his school though?  That kid obviously was one of many bullies and they took a stand.  That is unbelievable and wonderful that they would do that, especially senior who at this point could loose a lot.
  • sarahlian
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    留言於2009-05-05 3:58AM [举报]
    its unfortunate, but i'm glad the father took that stance. People are always threatened by change. Thanks for sharing, i feel moved thinking about the school defending the kid!
  • Lynn
    留言於2009-05-04 8:57PM [举报]
    yep. I was in Calgary, Canada a decade ago. was in line buying ice-cream. I remember a fat blonde long haired girl took a look at me and skipped me and went on to the next customer behind me. I glared at her and walked off.

    If that girl is ever reading this... well f* you. I hope you get your karma in your lifetime! You're lucky I wasn't as bad tempered then as I am now...

    Another one in Perth, Oz. My bff went to Perth for her graduation ceremony after she completed her distance learning. While they were walking along the sidewalk shopping, a car drove past and those assholes yelled "go back to where you came from you yellow bastards". Needless to say, she will never hit Perth ever again.
  • rottendoubt
     
    留言於2009-05-04 11:24AM [举报]
    hmmm ya stuff like this has happened to me a bit before.  but i just ignore it.  i don't believe in fighting because ... i don't want to deal with revenge.  if you fight and lose, that sucks.  if you fight and win, you'll always have to be watching your back in case they try to get revenge.
  • mariejost
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    留言於2009-05-04 7:46AM [举报]
    This is a tricky call--not that the Asian kid was victimized and had enough and fought back--that is clear.  But it sounds more like bullying with the racial slurs thrown in to fan the flames and insult him even more.  I'm White (pretty obvious from my headshot, huh:-)), but I was mercilessly bullied from the time I was 7 until I went to college.  Girls normally aren't bullied that much, but I was.  I was tormented incessantly by everyone at school.  A lot of it was verbal, but there was also physical abuse, such as being pushed down flights of stairs, run over by bicycles, hit with rocks, kicked, punched, etc.  Because I was a girl, they knew they couldn't light into me full-bore, because beating up girls wasn't socially acceptable in those days.  But when things got so bad that even the class nerds ganged up on me, I knew I was in trouble.  I even had to fight one of them after school in the fourth grade to preserve what few shreds of dignity I had left.  If I let the class nerd pick on me and get away with it...well, that would have been a declaration of open season.  So I beat the tar our of him and went home.  He, when he got home with his clothes torn and bruised up, told his mom the story that he had beat me up pretty bad.  When I got home and my mom got the call from his mom, all worried that I was beat up, boy did we have a good laugh!
  • MissScarlett
    留言於2009-05-04 6:10AM [举报]
    *sigh*
    Gold star and round of applause for Matthew Winch. This boy is a bridge builder. We need more bridge builders in the world...
    Racism is rarely created, it's inherited, and the parents of the kid who got clocked should be ashamed of themselves. Ultimately, this is their fault--as a parent I know, kids pick up EVERYTHING (*cringe*).

    People disagree with me, even start arguments, when I say tolerance is a load of crap.  It is! My rationale? It's little more than an ability to look the other way, stepping around people and learn to ignore while going about your OWN business--you don't have to actually give a damn about anyone else. Ignorance and tolerance is what's brings us stories like the one above.

    Wanna be a bridge builder?--and bridge builders can be any race with the bridge starting on either "side"! Education and understanding are your building materials, all held together by giving a damn about people. Doesn't even take a lot of effort, but it DOES take SOME effort.  

    Why does every generation in the US/Canada have to keep doing this? Did you know, around the turn of the century (1800s to 1900s), there was anti-Irish sentiment? In cities, it wasn't uncommon to see signs in windows, "Help wanted. Irish need not apply."  Why haven't we learned? I guess "we" is a bad choice of words. Some have. The Mathew Winch's of the world have. Time for EVERYONE to stand up and make an effort to get to know their neighbors, co-workers, classmates, etc. as people! And make sure the ignorant toleranter know, "Dude, that's not cool."  

    Sorry for monologuing. If you ever find yourself in Michigan, Simon, you will be more than welcome in my home (so long as you promise not to curse in front of the kids).
  • andy_lau_spain
    留言於2009-05-04 2:57AM [举报]
    one can experience racism in many places, and in many forms, and as any kind of discrimnation, u can just shrug it off a decent couple of times, then u can't do it anymore.
    I totally understand the reaction
  • andrewng
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    留言於2009-05-04 12:58AM [举报]
    Morality is like art, you have to draw a line somewhere.  I grew up 15 miles from the 2nd largest internment camp in the U.S. and the Indian reservation was full of "Wind Talkers".  Yeah there were those.  But there were a lot of good people.  One thing is I liked playing American Football and I "found" those guys!:)
  • desmondso
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    留言於2009-05-04 12:57AM [举报]
    No doubt.  It shouldn't take someone being seriously injured or killed for something to be a "hate crime".  A racial slur + punch should suffice.  Keep us posted on what actions the hate crime unit takes please.
  • peachey
    留言於2009-05-04 12:56AM [举报]
    It's going to be high tension in the h.s. and community for years to come. I'm glad the kid stood up. Too bad he accidentally broke the instigator's nose.
  • Etchy
     
    留言於2009-05-04 12:28AM [举报]
    if nothing else, the broken nose kid should be equally punished...

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