Tea time and Happy Marriage

(Continue my last blog on happy marriage works for attractive wife.)

I love tea- time, I want to have a milk tea/ coffee even if I'm alone (yes, now I can go with Amelie, this make me happy that I have a girl instead of a boy).   If I am in Taipei, I'd go to "Auntie Stella" cos they have hand-made cookies; if I am in HK, I usually go to UCC cafe, not so crowded, of course the best high-tea is Peninsula Hotel (but too expensive to go everyday); if I want a quick rest, I'd go to Starbucks; in SZ, Starbucks seem to be my only choice, sometimes I'd go to Kempinski Hotel for high tea too, but not so often.

I love tea-time, cos I can take a rest, no thinking, watching other people.  You know, lots of ladies like to have a tea and chat for the whole afternoon.  That day, I can't forget that day, I have tea in "Auntie Stella" as usually, the shop is very small but very elegant, all wooden tables, chairs, and so every table is very close to each other.  I have tea with Amelie on that day, cos there's a CitySuper in that mall, I dropped by to have a pot of milk tea and cookies, and Amelie was 1+yrs at that time.  She was drawing pictures, and I was enjoying my tea.  Right beside our table sat 2 ladies, middle-aged, didn't bother to look at them,  chatted very loudly, and I heard their conversation, something like this:

Lady A: " I giveup, I can't believe man anymore, I must depend on myself to earn money."

Lady B: "Yes, you're right, I was totally desperate when I knew that he has another woman, that's the 2nd time....."

Lady A: " Yes, I know, that's why I divorced too........"

O.K., 2 unhappy marriage -  ladies were sitting beside me.  I was curious and I turned to see how they look; OMG, if I am their husbands, I want to find another woman.  No offense here, but really, that's my first thought!  That day, I came home and tell my E all about it, and I swear I must really taking good care of my appearance, at least this make no excuse for man to find another young, attractive lady.

What I want to say is if you are still attractive, at least your hubby is concern about you, he may think that other guys will be attracted by you too.  Maybe you may disagree with me, but of course there's still lots of elements to make a happy marriage, only the appearance is the part that we can easily aware of.  Hope that everyone can have a happy marriage!