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  • MAHJONG & LIARS

    2007-08-09 2:38AM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    too much mahjong lately that there's nothing to blog in my life haha~~ last time we played from 9pm -3am... haha

    anyways, my friend Rebecca wrote an interesting blog ... about liars and moral standards.  I'm a person with high moral standards and like to be direct in everything.  I dun like to play games...but i know that's not how it goes in society these dayz.... anyways her blog goes sumthing like dis

    最近有個很close的好朋友~ 跟我說了一個另人匪夷所思的故事.  關於一個他最親的親人 和 他好友之間產生的一些 chemistry changes..~  這是個很長的故事~ 故事的本身 反應出 對人性的不信任 探討的是 人的表面 和私底下 有何不同 還有現代人對於道德的看法和不同的見解~  我朋友跟我說~  他厭惡這虛偽的世界 和愛說謊的人..   這一切的一切都令他做嘔...

     

    在我看來~ 過於沉重和保守的道德觀 已不適用於在這個社會上了...  現今的社會 要用很高的道德標準去檢視發生在這世上每個角落的一切 和任何事情 未免顯得過於殘酷 和 強求..  因為現在越來越多人的價值觀 早已變遷 已經毫無道德可言 試問 又怎能把這麼原始 又 保守的一切標準 套在現代人的身上呢...

     

    誰會喜歡說謊的人.. 沒有人喜歡被騙..  可回頭想想..  我們又有多真誠 這世界本來就住滿了道貌岸然的人...  We all hate fakers and liars...but if we really think 'bout it...  Aren't we all fakers and liars?!~  No one's perfect...even tho some of us are searching for perfections in our lives..but sometimes..We hafta fake and lie..no matter to the ones we like or dislike, to our customers for business, to our friends or even sometimes to our parents ...we lie for a better life...This is the cruelty of the reality... Face it!  We hafta lie and fake inorder to live and to survive well in nowadays..  It's a MUST, we haf ...

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    TELL ME WUT U THINK OR JUST COMMENT ON HER POST, I"LL GO READ IT =) 

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  • casparkeung
    藝術家空間 
    留言於2007-08-20 9:50PM [举报]
    hope you better
  • Beatrix
    留言於2007-08-20 8:40PM [举报]
    if we don't fake up sometimes, i think we will have wars quite often~
  • Michelle-li
    留言於2007-08-20 12:23AM [举报]
    这世界本身不复杂,但人让他复杂了~~
    的确,谁喜欢说谎,谁喜欢被人骗,可试问自己又有多真诚。。。喜欢你的文章。
  • crane
    留言於2007-08-15 1:16AM [举报]
    听过一个故事没有,古代有一个很贤德的人,一天他出门在外,有人跑到他家,对他母亲说,你儿子杀人了,母亲不信,说我儿子很贤德,肯定是谣言。过了一会儿,又有一个人说,你儿子杀人了,官兵追来了,快逃吧。母亲犹豫了一下,说,不会的,我相信我儿子。当第三个人过来说的时候,母亲不再说话,逃跑了。
    想想,母亲的信任也敌不过谣言的力量,何况信任本身就是建立在薄弱基础上的双方呢?
  • Kuhitsu
    留言於2007-08-12 6:19AM [举报]
    and about fakes. Whit my life experience most of people are fakes! some of them are so good that they can even lie to them selfs. As i have told in my blogs... most important thing is to know what you really are ;)
  • Kuhitsu
    留言於2007-08-12 6:16AM [举报]
    why do people have to think so much? I just cant get it. now I'm thinking about this subject.. and i really don't want to because there's nothing to think about ;) people lie... I hope they wont lie to me.. I try not to lie, but as i told there.. i told here. I'm not sure where's the line between lie and joke (even that i let people to know that I'm joking... as almost always...). MAIJI you think to much ;)
  • chen
    留言於2007-08-11 9:42PM [举报]
    i agree with peachey =) it depends on what kind of lie you throw in. But I think it makes the world balanced. hehe..All of us lie..I mean who doen't?? there are just those who are born to lie and do anything but lie.. it's our choice..
  • Sorica7
    留言於2007-08-11 11:13AM [举报]
    The last thing we should do is to magnify one single tragic event to shadow all other good things that are happening in the world.  =)
  • AsianChick100
    留言於2007-08-10 7:05AM [举报]
    hmmm. it's sad to hear one who thinks everyone needs to be a faker and liar to survive in this world. i guess everyone could be a hypocrite to some degree. i think it's a choice that each person makes in each situation...
  • Mommy_Mok
    留言於2007-08-09 1:38PM [举报]
    I said there's a big difference between lying with malice and lying because you have the best intent to make things better....
  • elavndrc
    留言於2007-08-09 11:22AM [举报]
    Hmm I can't read the entire blog but it is true that everyone lies but not everyone is out to hurt you with those lies and not everyone is a faker...people fake because at certain times and certain situations..there are some things that are appropriate and others that aren't.

    But yea...I wanna play mahjong!  We're always one person short so I haven't played in a long time >_<
  • LISA.L
    留言於2007-08-09 11:04AM [举报]
    Having learn how to play mahjong recent days, became a fan of it. Liars? It depends!
  • GingerGeng
    留言於2007-08-09 10:35AM [举报]
    no wonder she's such a loner...whom only has 3 friends...poor lill thing...~




    wulalalalalalala.............bored...
  • GingerGeng
    留言於2007-08-09 10:31AM [举报]
    It's pathetic that ur friend Rebecca Ginger Geng is such a cynic..i haf a sympathy for her.....  dot dot dot...


    i dont see any fakers or liars out there....

    *i can see GOOD people* A men...!
  • snowsnow
    留言於2007-08-09 9:20AM [举报]
    i thinke no one can make a promise about never lie to somebody in this world,so take it easy,u'll find it is not so complicated as u think.
  • musicnote
    留言於2007-08-09 8:11AM [举报]
    Yeah, everyone does lie. It depends on how big the lie is that can hurt people.
  • peachey
    留言於2007-08-09 4:22AM [举报]
    Big bad lies - fraud, embezzlement, libel, anything for personal or financial gain - is bad. Little white lies to spare people's feelings sometimes is necessary. To maintain peace.
  • pongza
    留言於2007-08-09 4:10AM [举报]
    Hmm I say as long as you're not lying to your self and you wont regret a lie then it should be fine.

    Lies are harmfull or helpful, depends on how you use it.

    Lies are like power in ones hands.
  • lou
    留言於2007-08-09 3:29AM [举报]
    The only time I would “go with the flow” is when I drive on freeway.   

    I would never compromise myself to be accepted by a group of phonies.   I don’t expect others to hold the standard of values and ethnics as mine.  BUT, I'd cherish quality friendship over quantity of friends anytime.
  • RenRen
    留言於2007-08-09 3:21AM [举报]
    Hmm...everyone lies. That's the truth. It really depends on what you're lying about and if it really affects others in a significant way (e.g. money laundering, cheating on your gf/bf/spouse, sickness).
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