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2008-03-01 5:34AM / 標準BLOG / experiences / 會員可以看
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On Wednesday I went to visit my mom at work (mainly because the French Bulldog was there) the one I took care of for a week around Thanksgiving time...

It's her boss' pup... anyways... we were having this conversation with her other boss (B) about the attachment we have with pets... the boss' lady friend (L) lost her doggie recently and called B saying she lost her baby... B was like baby? Thinking, OH $hit! and L said that she pretty much spent all her money in trying to save her baby... then finally she said the doggie's name and B was like, oh your dog... but anyways... L was so devastated by the lost that her doctor suggested that she should see a psychiatrist... L's family was living elsewhere and she had only a few friends so her dog was her main companion...

B was telling us; it's true that humans become very attached to their pets and that's the main reason why he didn't want to have a dog because he once had to put his dog to sleep and since then he never had another dog... he didn't want to have to go through the same thing again...

It's true... till this day I can't seem to get myself together to find me another dog... why? because I can't help but compare other dogs with Hak Mui (my shar-pei) even though I know that it's wrong to compare because Hak Mui will always be Hak Mui and I know I probably will never find another dog like her...

But I think also because I really don't want to go through the same thing I had to go through when I had to put my two dogs to sleep... it's the circle of life... I understand that... but I don't want to go through that same feeling of sadness and pain...

and recently I've been reminded of Wrinkles and Hak Mui a lot... *err* it's tough... but I am trying to think happy thoughts only...

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elavndrc
留言於2008-03-02 4:55PM [举报]

i can imagine how attached a person can be...for for me I can't take care of pets lol....and I'm kind of an extreme germaphobe...

don't worry be happy! you have great memories of them and that's all that matters =]
butter
留言於2008-03-01 10:46PM [举报]

Mr. B and I have wanted to get a doggy for a awhile now but the attachment and loss factor has kept us from doing so. Hak Mui can never be replaced but you may change your mind one day about getting another dog if you meet the right one.
JoanneSanderson
留言於2008-03-01 4:36PM [举报]

Yeah peachey's right, one day you'll see one that you want to give a chance on. I get very attached to any of my pets,, their love is unconditional, it's hard to let go of friends like them. I hope you will be able to take a chance again someday.
lc
留言於2008-03-01 12:31PM [举报]

yes one day you will be ready, what a cute name 'hak-mui' =)
Jaine
留言於2008-03-01 6:05AM [举报]

*hugs*
but I agree with Peachey, never is a long time
peachey
留言於2008-03-01 6:02AM [举报]

Someday you'll be ready to take the chance and love again.

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