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  • the feelings inside

    2008-04-23 10:55AM / 標準BLOG / random / 會員可以看
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    I noticed something today...
    -or maybe it's just me-

    but I've found that whenever we are told not to do something we do it anyway... even simple things... like when we are laughing away and someone comes by to say, "Stop Laughing!" then we laugh even harder... When I read the words, "Don't cry for me."  I started getting teary-eyed.

    but I'd bet even as kids we did the same things... when we were told to stop playing and to go do our homework, we'd drag and try to get in a few more minutes of play...

    it's interesting how when we are told no, we say yes.   I guess it's some kind of curiosity feeling inside. But of course there are things where we are persistent on...

    I don't know, I just found that to be somewhat interesting...

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  • butter
    butter
    留言於2008-04-25 11:15PM [举报]
    When I'm told repeatedly to do something, I usually have less of an inclination to do so.  I think it's my inner rebel acting up :P
  • JRS
    JRS
    留言於2008-04-25 2:26AM [举报]
    Really, it all boils down to control issues.  I think it's quite natural to want to control our own destiny.  If we immediately submit to somebody else's request, then they are in control, aren't they?!?!?!  

    On the emotional issues, though (laughing/crying), sometimes by having others directly ("Stop laughing!") or indirectly ("Don't cry for me.") tell us what to do or not do, then I think we actually validate whatever emotion we're experiencing and it becomes even more powerful.

    Deep subject....
  • Sorica7
    Sorica7
    留言於2008-04-24 8:02PM [举报]
    well, that's true sometimes.  i don't usually do that.. i think i was well trained to obey orders  =P
  • chen
    chen
    留言於2008-04-24 4:48PM [举报]
    hhmm..like the ritualistic behaviors toddlers have..hhmm...
  • peachey
    peachey
    留言於2008-04-24 4:11AM [举报]
    If you resent someone telling you what to do, whether it's to do something or stop doing sth, you're not going to want to cooperate. Happens more often with kiddies though.
  • jaymee
    jaymee
    留言於2008-04-23 11:23PM [举报]
    no it's not you!!! i guess everyone's just rebellious in a way! lol! it's normal *self-convinced*...lol!
  • pongza
    pongza
    留言於2008-04-23 10:59PM [举报]
    I always tell myself to stop eating too much, nope, I don't listen haha. Then my tummy starts aching..ouchy. haha =P
  • JoanneSanderson
    JoanneSanderson
    留言於2008-04-23 4:11PM [举报]
    Yeah you're so right. It's that little evil streak in us that tell us to rebel. :D. I hate having the fit of giggles at the worst times, becuase the harder you try to stop or the more someone tells you to stop, the worse you get.
  • nobleterry
    nobleterry
    留言於2008-04-23 2:43PM [举报]
    I agree with you. It' like when you tell someone "don't turnaround", then what do they do? Then when you tell them to turn around, they question, "Why?" and resist.
  • snowsnow
    snowsnow
    留言於2008-04-23 2:14PM [举报]
    yeah,I was that when i was young.
    but now,I think I can do something by my mind.
  • unwoundclock
    unwoundclock
    留言於2008-04-23 12:35PM [举报]
    o this is so true for me.. i never listen to anyone.. i think its a normal response to laugh harder or cry more...
  • amy_sycheng
    amy_sycheng
    留言於2008-04-23 11:25AM [举报]
    But if we really know if it's wrong, we'll still stop doing certain things, right?
  • joannayang
    藝術家空間 Joanna Yang
    留言於2008-04-23 11:14AM [举报]
    guess we just like to see wat happens if we do otherwise, a bit of inertia cum rebellious streak

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