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  • Nose

    2008-03-30 8:42AM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    What an exhausting week. We've been busy the last couple of weeks dealing with a few things. The most important was with our son. At 2, he's been through a lot, the most recent was dealing with his nosebleeds. We've had to cauterize both sides within the year, but most recently, we had to bring him in for endoscopic surgery for laser cauterization. Why so drastic for this procedure? Well, when he bleeds, it's like a bad leaky faucet. We'd check on him during the middle of the night and his face and sheets would be covered in blood. So, last week, we had to get up at 4:30am for a 7am surgery. All went well and he was a trooper.

    So, this week, he had a post-op...all is well. But, later that day, on my way home from work, the wife calls me and is hysterical on the phone. She tells me that our son just stuck a foam sticker up his nose...yup, same one that was just repaired. Off to the ER we go, in at 730pm...out at 1130pm...and nobody has had dinner, sister included. The ER doc was practically useless, the wife was frustrated with him as he seem to be nervous in what he had to do. First he had the wife plug a nostril and blow into his mouth...result, son puked all over the place. Bad procedure as this would have worked only if the nostril was completely plugged, but it wasn't. Then came the forceps, he pulls it out??? Nope, he pulls the scab of the surgery...now he's bleeding again...OH GREAT! ER doc suggests that he needs to go see the ENT specialist...DUH!?!?! So, next day, we're back at the ENT and she had to scope deep in...but she finds nothing...he probably swallowed it. Good news it that the scab removal didn't seem to do too much damage. So far, he's doing well. (crossing our fingers) Anyway, it was frustrating that if the ER doc was hesitant and a bit nervous in dealing with him, he should have let someone else help. As we always trust docs in believing they know what is best, we forget or sometime hesitate to voice our concerns. Next time (hopefully there won't be a next time), we'll be more vocal.

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  • butter
    留言於2008-04-02 6:41AM [举报]
    Definitely trauma that your little guy, you and your wife could've done without.  You should definitely be more vocal in the future if something seems off.  I don't think ER docs are the most competent.  I cut my finger really badly a few years ago and went to the ER.  They gave me a tetanus shot and put eight stitches on the cut but didn't put me on antibiotics even though I asked about it. I caught a horrible infection about a week later and had to go see a hand specialist to get it sorted out.  Hope your son is doing much better now.
  • iggypuffygirl
    留言於2008-04-01 4:17AM [举报]
    Glad your son's ok... yikes... must have been quite an ordeal :(
  • rottendoubt
     
    留言於2008-03-31 1:21PM [举报]
    woah....  glad everything turned out alright...
  • janechu
    留言於2008-03-30 11:02AM [举报]
    wow that is quite stressful... but I am glad to hear that your son is doing okay after going all this at such a young age too...

    yea, we had a conversation at school about when or how can we question a professional... it's tough, but I agree with Peachey, trust your instinct and ask if you feel you should... it is likely that it was a good to ask... =)
  • AsianChick100
    留言於2008-03-30 10:43AM [举报]
    omg- how traumatic =(

    your poor son... and he's only two??? =/ i hope things work out. you and your wife must be exhausted! take care... and keep us posted.
  • gregwong
    留言於2008-03-30 9:14AM [举报]
    Most doctors (MDs in particular -- as opposed to DOs, DCs or TCMs) are taught to, above all else, show authority. It's an evil cycle...and no one agrees that it's a good thing. As such, MDs are in a tough situation. If they admit not knowing, it's showing incompetence. If they hide it well, it's malpractice waiting to happen. Truth of the matter is that, at one point or another, they'll have to go through training, and they'll be unsure about what to do. And the learning never ends....it's a tough situation to be in for sure. I'm glad the little guy made it through relatively unscathed -- this experience will only make him stronger...and poop styrofoam.  :)
  • peachey
    留言於2008-03-30 8:53AM [举报]
    Oh my! Poor guy. He must have been so upset during the prodding. =(

    I know what you mean about trusting people whom you believe are supposed to be knowledgeable. Sometimes I've had some gnawing doubt but gave in anyways bc "they're supposed to know." I guess it's best to trust your instincts. Glad he didn't cause any damage in his ineptitude.

    I once sucked in a tissue that was stopping my nosebleed. Whoa, what a production to get that thing out. haha. I should blog it.

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