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    2007-08-14 6:05AM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    You guys ever get random people staring at you guys for no apparent reason. I mean it's not the normal stare that usually lasts less than a minute. I'm talking about a full blown more then 1 or 2 minutes. And you look back at them, still staring at you. Not smiling, but just looking at you like you have something on your face or something. (not checking you out either)

    I don't know, do you guys find that to be rude or is that just me? When people stare at me and I notice, I have to always look back towards them and be polite and smile. But they don't smile back. What's with the whole stare? They don't stop staring either. Their eyes follow you wherever you go. Creepy in a way. *cringe*

    I don't get the stare just from guys. Heck, I wish more guys would stare at me just to get my attention and smile towards me. But it's mostly girls who do this with me. It's like they're dogging me? Is there something going on here? Are they trying to send me mental messages or something through staring at me???  I must really be living under a rock. I don't know. But I don't like the whole stare thing. Is it a competition that I'm not aware of?

     

    As a child, I've learned that staring is "rude" and shouldn't be done. If there's something on a persons' face, politely point it out to them to prevent future embarassment for them. It's called manners. People these days don't teach them or use them anymore?

    I've never stared at a person for too long. Mostly less then 10 seconds. If I'm interested in what they're wearing, and they look at me, I'd smile and say something to be polite or just smile with admiration. Otherwise I see no point in staring too long.

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  • ivylam
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    留言於2007-08-15 3:04PM [举报]
    I notice that some people in HK tend to stare pretty randomly. I think it's totally rude, especially when you catch them staring and they just keep right on looking, and not in a friendly way either. Definitely happened to me several times. Sometimes I stare right back but it doesn't stop them. Then it just gets so uncomfortable I have to look away. They tend to be women of all ages. Jeez, what's their problem?

    You totally reminded me of how I had written a blog about this before but on another blog site. I was just thinking of re-posting it here on AnD.
  • Janina
    留言於2007-08-15 4:10AM [举报]
    agree.. it's not only rude, but I find it disrespectful.
    I hate it when people stare at me, whenever I notice someone staring at me for too long, I look back at them & roll my eyes to point out that I'm already irritated.. Lol.
  • Mommy_Mok
    留言於2007-08-14 1:52PM [举报]
    I never stare, but I think little kids like to stare at me....
  • rottendoubt
     
    留言於2007-08-14 1:20PM [举报]
    if i was "staring" and made eye contact, i'd smile.  =D
  • bao3
    留言於2007-08-14 12:59PM [举报]
    i totally try not to stare.... it gets to the point that if i'm with a group of friends and there's an attractive girl in the group that i'm not comfortable with yet, i actively don't look at her, even if i'm talking directly to her, so she doesn't think i'm trying to check her out....haha..
  • RenRen
    留言於2007-08-14 12:48PM [举报]
    If I notice a stranger staring at me...I mean really staring and not going to stop anytime soon staring. I stare back. I look at them straight in the eye until they turn away. Of course you probably shouldn't do this if the other person looks like they would kick your ass (like a cholo). Let's be real here.
  • iggypuffygirl
    留言於2007-08-14 9:37AM [举报]
    I tend to get that a lot, especially with older Chinese people... it's like they see another Chinese person and assume they know you!!  I once got followed by an older Chinese couple at a mall.  I noticed them staring and got uncomfortable so I started walking away.  They tailed me and I ended up going on a big bridge where there were a lot of people.  That's when the finally confronted me and asked me if I was someone that I was not!!
  • musicnote
    留言於2007-08-14 8:13AM [举报]
    I've never had someone stare at me for more than a minute. That must be really awkward to have someone stare at you and you looking back at them and having him/her not smile back or say anything. wow, that's so weird. I have no idea what these people are thinking.
  • janechu
    留言於2007-08-14 7:27AM [举报]
    hmm... if I notice someone staring, I look away... but if I still feel that person is still staring... I could get ticked off... I agree, staring is kinda rude... hmm... I wonder if I do the same... hahaa... =X
  • pongza
    留言於2007-08-14 6:27AM
    lol Peachey...no no no....

    I once walked into Smart & Final. The minute I walked in a girl was staring at me nonstop (she's right in front of me turning her head to the side just to stare). I looked and smiled. Nothing. I went to look at candy on the side, then I turn back and still I see her staring at me. But it's not one of those nice ones. I looked behind me to see what my parents were doing. Turned back and saw her still yet again looking at me. Now I get aggitated. I look at her and raise an eye brow to see if she stops. She still stares at me. And it's now just rude. Then I have to walk past her to get to the ice cream section. She gives off a huff or something near me. I have no idea what that was about.

    Sirendipity, ya I don't like that feeling either. I feel like I'm competing for something.
  • peachey
    留言於2007-08-14 6:13AM [举报]
    Are you full of yourself or something? haha! Why would somebody check another person out for a minute or two? Well, nobody ever stares at me or I just don't notice. I don't pay much attention to people around me. I mean, I'm alert and notice things but I don't look to see what they're looking at nor do I care if they look too long at me. It's me, I'm what I am, end of story. Just ignore them!

    Could be you're too sexy for your shirt.
  • sirendipity
    留言於2007-08-14 6:12AM [举报]
    I get very uncomfortable for strangers to be staring at me for no reason at all.  This happens a lot, living in a country where the chinese population is a minority.  But I still can't get use to it.  My friend use to say to "stare them down"  that's if they're staring at you then you stare back too.  I've tried it a few times but don't really like the feeling of it.  Yeah, I agree it's very rude to stare.

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