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  • Your type of man

    2007-12-04 12:41AM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    Lol I know I do alot of blogs about men for some odd reason.  But come to think of it, what do we really seek in a man?

     

    For me in attraction. My laws are if I see you as a professional associate, you're in my friend zone. If you're like a teacher type and you're a supporter of people especially of me, you're in my  "maybe, good luck to you for chasing me" zone.  Ya, but they never go after me.. 

     

    I don't know about you girls but the type of men who do actually get my attention are the ones you can actually learn from and the ones who will always be by your side supporting you. Lets call them a "teacher". I'm very drawn to people I can learn things from especially not just anything, but things I'm interested in. Psychology, philosophy, sociology, science even if it may creep me out, sports, life, love, food, etc.

     

    I do think what Peachey and Butter said was true about a friend that I'm not aware of will be the one who I end up with. But currently, no men around me......haha well that I'd chose, one smokes/drinks (friend/associate), the other well...not my type (friend/associate). The other one, he's untouchable sadly (armadillo guy/friend), hot arms!!! haha

     

    Not just a pretty face/body gets my attention. But a guys mind goes a long way. A guy with great respect, a guy with a great heart, a guy that can snuggle and hug me to sleep and I wake up next to him in the same position...lol I know that'll never happen. He'd probably loose all feeling in his arms if he did that. haha But if a guy did do that, he'd be getting a big lift in the morning..

     

    But a guy that's overall what I need. Although, I do have to wonder, will I be what he needs too? hmm...interesting. What do guys need from a girl??? A good ear, heart, rack, squeeze, roll in the hay ?? Lol that went down the gutter, haha sorry guys. I've so little faith that men can be "good". Oh boy, So sorry guys.

     

    I know I did a blog before and said that because I fear relationships I prefer to stay out of one, or somewhere along the lines of that. But saying is actually different from doing. I've realized that regardless of how much I try to protect my heart from getting hurt, we'll still get hurt. So why not just go and have some fun while you're at it. Just forget the bad times. Rejection hurts, but everyone gets rejected in life. Just gotta get used to it and move on.

     

    Now whether I have someone in mind, there is none. If there was Archie, like in Janes blog, I would be jumping onto him like a Koala bear. lmao. Poor guy..hehe Wouldn't know what hit him.  

     

    So what's your type of man?

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  • SurferBoy
    留言於2007-12-05 6:34PM [举报]
    You go for the bad guys, honey... just like all of the girls. We're mean, we're dangerous, and we're fun...

    Of course, we're unreliable and will break your heart... but that's part of the fun.
  • Beatrix
    留言於2007-12-05 6:54AM [举报]
    a man is good enough if he's intelligent and can cook~  he shouldn't let me starve. XD~~~
  • bell
    留言於2007-12-04 5:23PM [举报]
    hehe,pongza,the type of teacher whether make girls lack of confidence cause he know many things?
    yeah,that's good the "teacher" know more sexy things i not deny that.
    ur bf just be thoughtful ,healthy ,etc
    but we girls can make friends with many kinds of men,we also can learn much from them,not our bf or hubby,that's my opion.
    wish u find ur  true man,haha.
  • peachey
    留言於2007-12-04 9:34AM [举报]
    That's why it's important for the ladies to come out of their shell and try to meet people around them. It's easy when you're in school bc you're around lots of people wherever you go. Not so easy when you're at work bc you're usually around the same people. So, talk to your "neighbors," I say.
  • butter
    留言於2007-12-04 5:08AM [举报]
    Remember your standards and don't settle.  That's what I tell my girlfriends.  I guess my type would be  a geek :P   I like someone who is kindhearted, considerate, caring, smart and can make me laugh like no one else.  Physically, I prefer lanky Asian guys like Mr. B.
    Stay away from thos dudes who refer to girls as racks - bad news!
  • bao3
    留言於2007-12-04 5:06AM [举报]
    depends on the teacher type that you are looking at.  if it's an actual teacher or TA, then there's the legal implication of why they don't make a move.  as a teacher myself, not only am i not looking at my students because they are in HS, but also because it a breach of student-teacher ethics.

    if the teacher type comes up in less professional settings, then often the teacher doesn't take interest simply because he/she is simply enjoying the fact someone is interested in their field and enjoys sharing only that, not thinking about anything else.  i tend to be that way when i teach wushu and taiji.  so having some hints dropped once in a while would be helpful  :P
  • musicnote
    留言於2007-12-04 2:15AM [举报]
    aww...
    I like guys who can teach me new things too. It's more interesting that way. ;) I also like to keep my mind stimulated
  • joannayang
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    留言於2007-12-04 1:26AM [举报]
    haha is there something between u and tinlunlau? ;p

    Anyways, the sleeping with your guys' arms under u reminded me of Mr Cloudz. He loves to "hug hug sleep sleep" as we call it. Last time used to like to do that, but now i prefer to sleep without touching for better sleep :P better blood circulation. He complains that he cannot hug me
  • janechu
    留言於2007-12-04 1:23AM [举报]
    hahaa... Pongza you're so cute... =)

    hmm... I don't know what my type is... in the past I've always said, oh I want him to be like this or that... but it changes as I get older... and now... *argh* I don't know... seems like my type of guy doesn't exist (??) *shrugs*
  • tinlunlau
    留言於2007-12-04 1:15AM [举报]
    this post getting me dizzy...
    what kinda guy am i?

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