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  • I'm a RottenDoubter Friends/Fans

    2008-03-12 11:55PM / 標準BLOG / 會員可以看
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    So recently I've a couple of people requesting a friend invitation. As you all know I'm not a friend collector, nor am I good at all at making tons of friends so easily. I'm sure most of you know that already.

     

    I'm going by Patrick Lee's(rottendoubt) doing and that's what I've been doing. I believe that friend collecting shouldn't happen unless you speak to them on a daily basis and you know them enough to joke with them and when not to.

     

    But by all means, please feel free to fan me. If you request a friend invite, you've already been added to become my fan. If you do not want to become my fan, please feel free any time to unfan me. Don't feel bad or feel weird about it, please, I take no offence to it. I wont come and stalk you or hunt you down or question you. I'm not that mean.  

     

    Ah yes, for others who think that friend invites are good, lol I can't already keep up with tons of my feeds already and that's less then most of you guys have. Please don't bombard me.  I'm getting enough white/grey hairs.

     

    Okay, off to being a TA for the rest of the week, it's time to rack in my time for this week. I'm a get paid!

     

    Edit:  This has been brought to my attention. There are people here who are continously.... lets just say that once they get rejected including with an explaination as to why, they keep trying to add them as a friend regardless. Please do not, and I repeat DO NOT do this. It's quite an annoyance factor. Adding as a friend means that you should be close friends, not just regular commenters in peoples blogs.

    Please do not do this. Friend etiquette, let them retain their privacy!!!

     

    I can't stress this enough. I'm sure Patrick (rottendoubt) and the rest of the guys can't stress this enough. But please, this is not a place for friend collecting. Friend collecting is not what AnD is all about. That's where the fan button comes into play. Please respect people and their choices. If they want to add you as a friend, they will in time. But don't bug them more then once!!!

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  • rottendoubt
     
    留言於2008-03-19 2:38PM [举报]
    yay!
  • RenRen
    留言於2008-03-13 9:36AM [举报]
    I usually send them a message explaining why I don't want to add them as a friend...I don't know you and we don't interact on AnD enough for me to want to add you as a friend type of thing.
  • pongza
    留言於2008-03-13 3:32AM
    lol Peachey, I said sorry! I said I promise no more. =P
  • peachey
    留言於2008-03-13 3:15AM [举报]
    And long, long blogs from them don't help. ;D
  • peachey
    留言於2008-03-13 3:15AM [举报]
    Yes, too many feeds! Argh.
  • andy_lau_spain
    留言於2008-03-13 2:49AM [举报]
    yeah, believe it or not, I do the same =p
  • pongza
    留言於2008-03-13 2:48AM
    Gary, I just send them a nice little message is all. So far, none have been mean to me. What have you been doing to the poor people that you made provoked? lol

    *figh 5 Girls*

    Jaine, I know what you mean. I hate being preceived as being mean because I reject a friend invite. But then again, do I really know this person or not?  I'm just protecting my own interest is how I think about it.

    I guess some of my blogs can be too personal, gotta protect #1. =)
  • musicnote
    留言於2008-03-13 1:11AM [举报]
    that's a good way to go
  • Jaine
    留言於2008-03-13 1:04AM [举报]
    yep *high fives* from me aswell
    I have been telling friend requests (unless it is someone I aleady interact with regularly) to do the fan thing (first, at least).  I'm not a friend collector but I do feel mean.  I just need to toughen up I guess.
  • tinlunlau
    留言於2008-03-13 12:31AM [举报]
    haha!  i get a good laugh out of the rejectees who bash you for rejecting their friend request.  i've seen a few of those before.
  • janechu
    留言於2008-03-13 12:13AM [举报]
    well said, Pongza... I totally agree with you... =) *high five*

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